Everyone has unique experiences in life. Each person has a story to tell and words of wisdom that can be shared with others. With that in mind, we’d like to introduce you to some of the wonderful people who live here at CHCC. Here is a recent Q&A session we did with Patrice K.
Have you lived in other places besides Lynden?
I was born in Middletown, Connecticut. I had one sister who is six years older—we weren’t very close, but we tolerated each other. My father was a traveling salesman who sold furs, and my mother would model for him.
We moved to Washington State when I was 6, then to San Francisco when I was 11. I stayed in California for high school and most of college.
What was your first job?
Babysitting was my first job. I also worked in department stores during the holidays.
What other types of work did you do before retiring?
My great interest was always in art and music. I loved pottery and glazing. I taught second grade and also substituted in other grades.
What was your favorite thing about the work you did?
The thing I liked was that it connected me to other people. I really enjoyed the relationships with the children and their families.
What is one thing you have been most proud of in your life?
Finishing my college degree—I graduated (finally) from WWU. I’m also proud of my artwork, including the stories I wrote and illustrated.
What is the hardest thing you’ve lived through, and how did you get through it?
My family was at the circus when the Hartford, Connecticut, circus fire happened. I was 5 years old, and my father carried me out on his shoulders, but many people died. I saw it all happen. It was very traumatic.
Because of it, I developed a stutter, and I had to overcome that on my own. I was required to read aloud to the whole class, and it was very, very hard for me. I think I got through it by expressing myself through my artwork and by living my life.
What was your favorite decade to live in, and why?
The 1950s because I was excited about music, movies and theater, and everything was a big deal. I also loved 1950s fashion.
Who is your favorite author or musician?
I liked Danny Kaye, Bing Crosby and Dorothy Lamour, and Bob Hope. There weren’t too many women entertainers at that time besides Dorothy Lamour.
Do you have a favorite song, inspirational quote or Bible verse?
All music is inspirational to me.
What is one life lesson you learned from your parents?
Always be well groomed.
What is one piece of advice you would give a 16-year-old?
Enjoy your life to the best of your ability. If you feel sad about something, do something creative to get it out in whatever way you can.
What is one thing most people don’t know about you, but you wish they did?
I love to make paper dolls. It’s so fun and easy to make new outfits for them. I have written and illustrated several books.
What is one thing you like about living at CHCC?
It’s hard to choose just one, but the kindness of the staff and residents stands out. I also enjoy walking around the building, it’s so clean, and it’s like a little city with a library and lots of places to go.