Everyone has unique experiences in life. Each person has a story to tell and words of wisdom that can be shared with others. With that in mind, we’d like to introduce you to some of the wonderful people who live here at CHCC. Here is a recent resident spotlight Q&A session we did with Joyce N.
Have you lived in other places besides Lynden?
I lived in Long Beach, California, until I was about 20. Then I moved to Santa Barbara for a while, only to find out it was too expensive. I returned to Long Beach and decided to visit the local Marine recruiter’s office. I asked if they accepted women. The officer said, “I don’t know, but I’ll find out.”
I was one of the few women accepted into the United States Marine Corps at that time. I was sent to Parris Island, South Carolina, where I served for most of my military career. I also had deployments to Okinawa, Japan, and England before my husband and I retired in Lynden.
What was your first job?
My first assignment was at Parris Island, South Carolina, in the Marine Corps. I was assigned to the base commanding general as his aide. I worked for him for many years and traveled with him. During that time, I met my husband, Ken, who was also in the Marines. I spent my entire career in the Marine Corps and retired as a sergeant major.
What was your favorite thing about the work you did?
I got to meet Barbara Bush. She was interested in women who served in the Marines because there were so few of us. We had a three-hour conversation. She was very down-to-earth and fascinated by female Marines.
I also really enjoyed my role as a teacher. I taught male and female Marines about military duties. I enjoyed meeting these young recruits and being their instructor.
What is one thing that you have been most proud of in your life?
I was well respected in the military and continued to earn higher ranks throughout my career. I worked my way up the ladder. I was proud to work alongside the commanding general at Parris Island. I also had the opportunity to meet George and Barbara Bush.
What is the hardest thing you have experienced?
In my military training, I learned how to withstand pressure and difficult situations. I relied on that training whenever I faced challenges. I don’t remember experiencing anything I wasn’t able to handle.
What was your favorite decade to live in, and why?
I loved the ’60s because that’s when I first entered the military.
Who is your favorite author or musician?
I enjoy Frank Sinatra and Neil Diamond.
Do you have a favorite song, inspirational quote or Bible verse?
My favorite song is “Sweet Caroline.”
What is one life lesson that you learned from your parents?
My parents taught me to defend myself against my two older brothers. That’s where I got all my moxie. My father was very wealthy and knew many famous people. He had to travel often. Even so, he showed great love for my mother. After dinner, they would take a bottle of wine to a scenic overlook above Long Beach and spend time talking and enjoying each other’s company. They showed great love and respect for one another, which I will always remember.
What is one piece of advice that you would give a 16-year-old person?
Mature early. Be independent. Learn life’s lessons and do the right thing. Don’t wait for someone to come rescue you. Help yourself and be strong. Learn as many skills as you can. Respect your elders and your teachers.
What are some things that most people don’t know about you, but you wish they did?
Most people don’t know that I’m an artist. I use photographs as references and create pencil drawings. I started this hobby after my husband Ken and I retired and moved to Lynden.
One evening, we attended an art preview at the Jansen Art Center, where local artists were displaying their work. As I walked through the gallery, I thought, “I would like to begin doing pencil art.” It looked so interesting.
My husband built me a drafting table that could be adjusted, which helped me create the lighting and shadows in my drawings. I began displaying my work at the Jansen and at a local art store. Eventually, people became interested in my drawings and wanted to buy them, but I always considered my drawings a gift that I only wanted to share with others. I never sold any of my drawings. On a few occasions, I allowed people to take them home after donating them to the Jansen. The art center set the donation amount, and I never knew how much was given. Today, my artwork hangs on the walls of my room, and I welcome anyone to stop by and see it.
What do you like about living at CHCC?
CHCC is a natural fit for me. There is good communication; I am always open to lively conversations and have made many friends here who seek my advice, and I like that.